Hello Everybody!!

Hi Everybody, How are you all? I hope everyone is fine and in the pink of health.

I've been very busy with my work & personal life It hasn't been easy for me.

Well, I'm still not ready to share about it in public yet. Well, let's talk about the happiest moment to me in the past few months.

I've went for 2 solo trips. 1st is Hong Kong and 2nd is Tokyo.

I've never been so bold to go for solo trip. Never in my life that I can imagine that I'll travel all by myself to other countries other then in Singapore.

I would like to share my feelings on the 2 solo trips. Firstly, it wasn't a easy decision to make. Seondly, I'm wondering how should I tell my family about. And, Thirdly, Can I really do it all by my own?

Well, after the 2 solo trips. I can say that I've enjoyed to the fullest. Its even better to travel with my previous partners. I get to visit the places that I always wanted to go. Did alot of shopping and sightseeing. And most importantly, I do not have to compromise to anyone during the trips. I just have to please myself, see the countries through my eyes & also enjoy the peace that I can never get when I'm travelling with someone else.

Although its always better to travel with someone, but sometimes it feel much better to travel just on your own. The 'Peace' is not what you can achieve even if you are home (especially for those who lives with the family).

Maybe because i'm a introvert. I do not like to talk alot even especially when I'm at home. I like to enjoy quiet time by myself.

If there's any of you out there who wants to go for your very first Solo Trip. I would suggest you the following:

1) Book the accomodation near to the subway and central of the city (especially for woman).

2) Plan your Itinerary ahead. Do check online/ travel books and jot it down on a words/ excel files.

3) In your itinerary, input the subway line/ station name/ bus no.. so that you do not need to waste your time to search from the map.

4) Purchase subway pass via online, especially if you are going to japan. In Japan, it can be very difficult for tourist to understand their subway line.

5) Always carry a backpack with you.

6) Bring umbrella & waterbottle with you. I will also buy fruits the night before my next sightseeing, so that I can have it when I feel hungry.

These are the stuffs that I'll look into when I travel by myself.

Friends asked me if I want to go for Solo Trip again. My immediate answer is 'OF COURSE!!'

Till then. See you all!! bye!!

Life

1st is Syrians refugees that was killed during their escape. Seeing many young kids trying to flee to another country via the sea but they were drown, seeing their bodies found by the seaside. And now the 13 Nov'15, Paris Attack. What have this world turn into? Why people are killing innocent people? Even small kids.

Yesterday while I was on my facebook looking at the updates, I came across a video of a Syrian little girl whom was selling tissue on the street, but she freak out when she saw policeman. She keep begging for forgiveness and crying so hard. It totally breaks my heart, tears were flowing in my eyes. No kids are suppose to go through all these fear at such tender age.

On 14 Nov'15 morning, I checked on my facebook as per usual. I saw the news about Paris been attacked and 100+ innocent people were killed. After that, I saw people posting videos of a pregnant lady hanging outside her window just to keep herself safe and not get killed by IS people. There were people running for their lives, some even pulling the bodies of their loves ones on the street, crying for help.


Through all these news, it set me thinking 'Why in this world there are people killing innocent people? Why they want to make the people suffer?'


But I guess, everything happen for a reason. Through these, let me know that life is precious, life is unpredictable and life is to be treasure.


I pray that the victim's family will be able to overcome the lost of their love ones and be stronger. Because I believe that the victims won't want to see their love ones unable to pull themselves up.


May the souls rest in peace, May the souls be able to move on in the heaven.

*UPDATE*

Hi everyone

I've been missing for years. Life has been not easy for me. I've been through a lot and also learn a lot about how life should be.

These few years, I've learnt that life is in fact very easy. We need to learn how to love and be happy with ourselves. Oh man! Let me tell u. This is the most difficult task and mission that a human can do.

Although I've been through quite a number of down time but it can't be compare for losing my precious girl Tut Tut.

29 Mar 2014, Tut Tut decided to enter the rainbow bridge. She passed on peacefully in my arms. It was really heartbreaking for me. She was my first dog that I've own and we spent a lot of ups and down together. We never leave each other's side before. But I've learnt to treasure more time with my love ones and also love myself more. I know Tut Tut is worried about me, as I'm always unhappy with my life and always confide to her only.

So, in terms of not letting Tut Tut to continue to worry for me and holding her back for moving on for her next life. I need to learn to be more independent and mature. Which I am doing great now. I'm enjoying my life and most importantly I'm much much more happier now then before. I believe she is happy that I'm doing great and she can really rest in peace.

Having a pet really teach a person how to love unconditionally and be more patience with things.

Someone asked this question: WHY DOGS HAVE A SHORT LIFESPAN?

A kid answered: IT'S BECAUSE DOGS ALREADY KNOWS HOW TO LOVE UNCONDITIONALLY.